Grizz wrote: ↑Fri Feb 02, 2024 11:04 am
When I got divorced I had a choice, we sell and start over with whatever came out the pot.
Or…..
Pay her out the difference between what we started and market growth, that was 68k her way plus what she had put in and start again…. So I started with £240k again.
I missed this bit first time around, we have more in common than I realised.
After a period of pointless messing about, My wife moved in with her work colleague to a two bed flat she bought just half a mile away, this was a massive relief, much like lancing a boil and squirting it up the bathroom mirror.
Messy but very necessary.
I was also "selected" for redundancy at the same time so I chose the only sensible option, buy a Barbie Pink Chevrolet G20 5.0 V8 and do a Charity rally.
For added fun I broke my collar bone on a Mini-Moto, a wheelie in the dark in a pub car park did not end well.
The gem of wisdom from this being, if your collarbone is broke, do NOT try the pull-start!
It hurts quite a bit and makes a funny noise inside you.
Driving home the next day was interesting.
I met my new wife on the rally, bought a 60,000 mile Ford Aerostar and did it all again a year later (minus the broken bones nonsense)
A purple Chevy Astro was bought to have a third run at the rally but that didnt happen due to the first of several family additions.
This left the thorny issue of keeping my house and paying off the Ex
The division of assets absorbed all the redundancy money I hadn't drunk on the rallies and a 50k mortgate extension.
The mortgage extension finished this month.
The end result, My Ex is now a 60 something, currently single because her work squeeze decided she was a bit mental.
My wife is a 40 something and I will be mortgage free in nine years.
My summary : Hang in there, the shit storms will eventually stop and you will wake up with a massive hangover in a hammock in Senegal.